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The reason relationships end can be grouped into three categories. You wronged your ex, they wronged you, or relationship drift. This article deals with the first two reasons.
In either of these cases, there is one key step to getting your ex back fast that is almost always overlooked. Nobody pays attention to it, yet it is one of the key strategies you need if you want to get your ex back fast " in hours or days, instead of weeks or months. This key step has to do with venting. You know what venting is. It is also called getting things off your chest. This is a vital step in getting your ex back fast. Why?
Because when you get dumped by your ex, it means that the good feelings they had for you are now replaced by negative feelings. Anger, sadness, hurt, betrayal now take the place of happiness, pleasure, love and intimacy. This is easy to understand. But hardly anyone knows what to do about these negative feelings. Sure, you can wait a month or six to see if time heals the wound, but what if you want your ex back in a day or a week? Is there any way to speed up the process of healing those negative feelings?
The way to heal negative feelings faster is to allow your mate to vent them. To release them. To get them off their chest, to let them go. So if he or she is furious or very hurt by something you did to them, you want to call them and ask them how they feel about what you did. Then shut up and let them have the time they need to form their feelings into words and start telling you.
Picture a balloon getting full of hot, angry, hurt emotions. Venting allows you to prick the balloon and release the pressure. The thing to remember when helping your ex vent is to just listen, not attack or argue or try to explain. You just want to let them talk as much as they feel like doing so.
This same strategy works the other way if they wronged you. If you want them back after, say, they cheated on you, you need to release your bad feelings about what they did before you can really take them back. So you ask them to just listen and not defend while you vent.
There is much more specific detail and training available on how to use this step effectively in getting your ex back. But you have probably already used this tool many times in your life to feel better by venting to a friend after a hard day, for example.
Venting, along with a few other steps, can make a big difference in getting your ex back fast. It can help you get them back in hours instead of waiting months and hoping they will get over it eventually!
In either of these cases, there is one key step to getting your ex back fast that is almost always overlooked. Nobody pays attention to it, yet it is one of the key strategies you need if you want to get your ex back fast " in hours or days, instead of weeks or months. This key step has to do with venting. You know what venting is. It is also called getting things off your chest. This is a vital step in getting your ex back fast. Why?
Because when you get dumped by your ex, it means that the good feelings they had for you are now replaced by negative feelings. Anger, sadness, hurt, betrayal now take the place of happiness, pleasure, love and intimacy. This is easy to understand. But hardly anyone knows what to do about these negative feelings. Sure, you can wait a month or six to see if time heals the wound, but what if you want your ex back in a day or a week? Is there any way to speed up the process of healing those negative feelings?
The way to heal negative feelings faster is to allow your mate to vent them. To release them. To get them off their chest, to let them go. So if he or she is furious or very hurt by something you did to them, you want to call them and ask them how they feel about what you did. Then shut up and let them have the time they need to form their feelings into words and start telling you.
Picture a balloon getting full of hot, angry, hurt emotions. Venting allows you to prick the balloon and release the pressure. The thing to remember when helping your ex vent is to just listen, not attack or argue or try to explain. You just want to let them talk as much as they feel like doing so.
This same strategy works the other way if they wronged you. If you want them back after, say, they cheated on you, you need to release your bad feelings about what they did before you can really take them back. So you ask them to just listen and not defend while you vent.
There is much more specific detail and training available on how to use this step effectively in getting your ex back. But you have probably already used this tool many times in your life to feel better by venting to a friend after a hard day, for example.
Venting, along with a few other steps, can make a big difference in getting your ex back fast. It can help you get them back in hours instead of waiting months and hoping they will get over it eventually!
About the Author:
You can discover more about getting things off one's chest and the other Immediate Reconnect Strategies to get your ex back in a book about Get Your Ex Back Relationship Repair. Johnnie S Laney teaches relationship and emotional intelligence courses and you can get the free course 7 Vital Relationship Insights You Never discovered In School here at Love Relationship Help Secrets.
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