Saturday, March 28, 2009

How Can I Restore Trust In My Relationship If I Have An Affair?

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By Jeremi Hany

What is the best way to get your ex back into your arms even though you have cheated on them? Well some people claim that affairs will lead to the end of a relationship. Well I do not agree with this. I strongly believe that if both parties are really committed to save their relationship, even an affair can be resolved. This very article is all about how to restore trust in your relationship.

Restoring trust in relationships requires an adjustment in attitude and actions. Even after an affair, it is possible to save a relationship. But that starts with ramping up the level of trust within the couple.

Why are you having an affair? It may be the attitude of your partner which made you stray from the relationship. Maybe there is something wrong with the relationship's core which made you do so, but it is very likely that you can do something about it.

Let's get to the reason for why you strayed. Was your partner too busy to give you time? Or is it because she is not grooming herself?

If the relationship is perfect, then you are unlikely to go into an affair. So, how can you fix it? More often than not, it lies in analyzing yourself. But it also depend on the strength of your relationship.

Restoring trust in relationships means fixing the underlying problems. Sometimes that means going into couples counseling.

But just understanding our thoughts isn't enough. The next step is to take concrete action in fixing the problems.

The key to restoring trust in your relationship does not lie in talking about the right things, but lies in doing the right things.

One of the most important things is to make little promises and keep them. Like if you promise to do some household work every Sunday, try to do it consistently. When you show that you are reliable and can be trusted on these small things, you are slowly but surely demonstrating that you can be trusted on bigger things too.

Now your girlfriend or your wife will always need to be assured and would always want to ensure that you have really changed. This means that you will probably have to apologize more than once. It is certainly not easy for her to forget the breach of trust. If you really want to stay with her, be calm and patient with her.

This does not mean that you must feel guilty about the indiscretion forever. In fact, if you allow her to constantly guilt trip you, she will not be satisfied in the new relationship you are building. Just be understanding.

Once you have got some of the trust back and she is now much more calm, try to make a positive spin about the incident. Try to let her know that this had made both of you more mature and you are more committed in your relationship than ever before. Just like a broken bone grows stronger from where it broke.

Restoring trust in a relationship takes time. It requires that you change both your attitude and action. But it is possible to heal the divide and be a stronger couple as a result.

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1 comments:

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