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Even when you love someone and want them to be a part of your life it can be hard to make a relationship work. If your ex girlfriend has broken up with you and you aren't happy about it, don't simply settle for the end of the relationship. If she loves you and you love her, there is a chance that you can get her back in your life and actually be happy together.
The first thing you need to do is figure out what went wrong. Chances are, you know what went wrong but many men really are clueless because the girl just up and walked out of their life. If you aren't sure, try to get her or her friends to talk to you about what went wrong. When you have an understanding of what went wrong it will be much easier.
When you know what really went wrong you can look at yourself, your ex girlfriend , and the relationship and decide how things can be different. Are the things that made her unhappy things that you can change? Can you be happy while changing these things for her? If you can change and still be who you are, you may be able to salvage the relationship.
While you have decided that you would like the relationship to work, you need to give her some time to cool off. Give her about a week and then just give her a call to check up on her. Let her know that you're still there if she needs help with anything and that you want her to be alright.
Find an excuse to bring or send her a small gift. This can be a favorite flower, candy, or even some sort of trinket. You can send it openly or you can send it without giving a name. The idea is not to buy her back, but remind her that you are thinking of her. Chances are that you will put a smile on her face and reignite an old flame.
Next, you need to write her a letter. Let her know that you understand why things went wrong. Tell your ex girlfriend that you know you can fix it and be clear about how you are going to do it and what actions you have already taken. This will show her that you are serious and may soften her a bit.
Give her a few days after the letter before you contact her again. At this point, send her an email or give her a call and ask her out to get ice cream or a cup of coffee. If she accepts, chances are that she is willing to consider the relationship again. If she doesn't, you may need to give her a bit more time or accept that the relationship is really over.
After you send the letter, ask her to meet you somewhere for a scoop of ice cream or a cup of coffee. Tell her that you just want to talk to her and that you miss her. When you meet up, let her know that you want to get back together and again detail the changes you have begun to make. If she accepts the invitation, it’s a good sign!
While you are out together you should be on your best behavior. Behave like yourself, but just show her that you are capable of good treatment toward her. Make her laugh and smile at her, remind her of the warm times you have spent together. Make sure that you have a very open conversation about how you feel. Apologize if you need to for your past mistakes and make her aware of just how serious you are about having her back in your life. Share your hopes and dreams about the future with her and invite her to do the same. This may be a good time to get a look at how she really feels!
At this point you will have a good indication of whether she will take you back. If she does, make sure that you follow through on all of the things that you told her you would do. Relationships all go through good times and bad times, the idea is that you learn from your mistakes and that you stay true to your word so she can have faith in you.
The first thing you need to do is figure out what went wrong. Chances are, you know what went wrong but many men really are clueless because the girl just up and walked out of their life. If you aren't sure, try to get her or her friends to talk to you about what went wrong. When you have an understanding of what went wrong it will be much easier.
When you know what really went wrong you can look at yourself, your ex girlfriend , and the relationship and decide how things can be different. Are the things that made her unhappy things that you can change? Can you be happy while changing these things for her? If you can change and still be who you are, you may be able to salvage the relationship.
While you have decided that you would like the relationship to work, you need to give her some time to cool off. Give her about a week and then just give her a call to check up on her. Let her know that you're still there if she needs help with anything and that you want her to be alright.
Find an excuse to bring or send her a small gift. This can be a favorite flower, candy, or even some sort of trinket. You can send it openly or you can send it without giving a name. The idea is not to buy her back, but remind her that you are thinking of her. Chances are that you will put a smile on her face and reignite an old flame.
Next, you need to write her a letter. Let her know that you understand why things went wrong. Tell your ex girlfriend that you know you can fix it and be clear about how you are going to do it and what actions you have already taken. This will show her that you are serious and may soften her a bit.
Give her a few days after the letter before you contact her again. At this point, send her an email or give her a call and ask her out to get ice cream or a cup of coffee. If she accepts, chances are that she is willing to consider the relationship again. If she doesn't, you may need to give her a bit more time or accept that the relationship is really over.
After you send the letter, ask her to meet you somewhere for a scoop of ice cream or a cup of coffee. Tell her that you just want to talk to her and that you miss her. When you meet up, let her know that you want to get back together and again detail the changes you have begun to make. If she accepts the invitation, it’s a good sign!
While you are out together you should be on your best behavior. Behave like yourself, but just show her that you are capable of good treatment toward her. Make her laugh and smile at her, remind her of the warm times you have spent together. Make sure that you have a very open conversation about how you feel. Apologize if you need to for your past mistakes and make her aware of just how serious you are about having her back in your life. Share your hopes and dreams about the future with her and invite her to do the same. This may be a good time to get a look at how she really feels!
At this point you will have a good indication of whether she will take you back. If she does, make sure that you follow through on all of the things that you told her you would do. Relationships all go through good times and bad times, the idea is that you learn from your mistakes and that you stay true to your word so she can have faith in you.
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