Thursday, March 19, 2009

3 Simple Steps To Win Your Ex Back

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By Jeremi Hany

How can I get my ex back in 3 steps?

If you have just gone through a devastating break up, you are probably thinking about "What should I do to get my ex lover back?" Most likely, you hope you will be able to win your ex back as fast as possible. Well, this is what many people think.

Just after a break up, it is easy for anyone to just break down or go into depression. In fact, you will probably be clueless as to what you should do next and what steps you should take. Most probably, you feeling like you just want to call your ex and plead him or her to come back into the relationship. But, will doing so help you in anyway? Instead of improving the situation, it will probably make the situation worse, causing your ex to avoid you even more.

So, what should you do? Well, you should probably do something that is opposite of how you feel. Maybe you want to call your ex? Then don't do it. Maybe you feel like crying? Then don't do it. Instead, you want to follow 3 simple steps, and you will be able to find a good answer to, "How can I get back together with my lover?"

1 - Accept Your Break Up!

First and foremost, you need to accept that the break up is happening. Tell your ex that you are okay with it, and allow the "moving on" process to begin/. When you do this, it will eliminate a large amount of the tension and stress that is being experienced by all. Your ex will need time to think about the relationship, and this will give you time as well to consider your options. If your ex realizes that he or she still loves you, they will find a way to get back with you.

2 - Don't contact your lover!

Do not make an effort to contact your ex anymore right now. You should cut communication off with him or her so that there can be some "thinking time". This may seem counterintuitive, but by cutting communication off you are signaling that you have already moved on and that you are doing just fine.

Your ex will then start to think about your relationship in a different light. Most probably, your ex will start to miss you again. When you stop contacting your ex and is able to do so calmly, your ex will probably start to realize how important you were to them.

3 - Plan Ahead for the Get Together

Once you have completed the two steps mentioned just above, you can start working on planning when you should meet, where you should meet, and also what should be said when you do meet up again. This will allow you to get a better idea of whether or not your ex still loves you, and also if there is any chance that you and your ex will be able to get back together.

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